Recuperation of a wounded heart

When a man changes lovers, it may means a little to him than changing his clothes ---
and perhaps for much more the same reasons.
But the shock to the discarded lover's self-esteem may prove to be catastrophic and end of the world scheme.
At first she refuses to believe what he has said, then,
when she realizes that he is in earnest, she becomes angry.
She will try to ask him again if she hears him wrong.
The bastard would just nod to prove to her that she hears him right.
The woman starts to cry and shout at him. She then will act hilarious, begging and all the stuffs that a desperate woman will do to win him back. Such stupidity isn't it?
But try to put your feet on her shoes would it be impossible for you to act the same,
knowing he dumped you with some absurd reasons?
Many crimes of passion have been committed in these moments.
No one can be unaware of that,
though the average woman does not murder her former beloved out of hand,
but contents herself with shouting at him before she storms out and slams the door
or curse him to death which of it must feels her better.
Anger is fatiguing emotion and after a time the discarded lover subsides into bitter disappointment.
She will do some self-pity stuff which is shameful.


But I will give you some tips on how to heal your self from great discouragement.

First, I know that the most possible thing you primarily do is to call your friends and ask them to go out with you and do some drinking session. Girls! Its a big NO NO NO! Why? They would just tease you, laugh at you and worst  endangered the money in your pocket. Aside from that you will look LUSYANG, which are the imbeciles are trying  to portrait. I know you wouldn't like to look idiot in front of your friends.
I strongly suggest after the heart breaking drama you went through call your friends ask them to go out with you, but not in the bar Amega instead ask them to go shop with you. Buy new dresses, change your style, renew your self. Look in the mirror, see your beautiful! Convince yourself that life has not yet ended, talk to your self that he will pay for this, that he will regret the day he let you slip away. He must pay for all the tears and pain that he had caused you. Isn't it wonderful to discussed it to yourself! After that, treat yourself, pamper it to the things you wanted to do the most, you can go out try for adventure, do some workshops, join dance theater or help those who are in need by joining some foundations and charities. Love your self more. Add class and color to your life. You would finally notice that their are many FISH, SHRIMP, AND OTHER CREATURES IN THE SEA. But please bare in mind the number one rule, do not ever try to look good for the sake of others just to notice or like you but instead look and feel good because you deserve it and you love yourself even more than you love others. It is just a small prize for the winner. Remember the three L's, continue to LIVE, LAUGH, and most importantly LOVE. Inspire others and spread the words. So that time will come their will be no woman crying for some lame reasons of dumping and breaking of hearts by some bastards.

Next, eating chocolates, cakes and other sweets are helpful to aid the wounded heart but also try to consider your weight. I bet you don't want to look A BIG FAT UGLY lady because of him. A BIG NO NO NO! After realizing that try to go in the gym and work out! Or if out of the time and budget I strongly suggest that you can download videos online to try working out at home. See isn't it good? Healing one's heart is not that hard.

Eventually we recover and find another man, so that life and love may continue.


Khimiix <3

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